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So, you want to know how to get back up again. You feel like your situation is so bad that you will never get out of it, and at this point you just don't know what to do. You're on the right track because I just went through the last few years of hell, okay? And I went through this for a reason. I went through it pregnant, betrayed by someone I love, and I went through it publicly with everyone voicing their opinions and trying to undo me. Of course they failed because they are [__] losers. In this video, I'm going to tell you how, no matter what circumstances you may be going through, you can still rise, how you can rise, and the fact that you will rise. The first is who can break you.
No, seriously. For example, give me an answer, who can break you? Those bullies, your ex, whatever you've been through, those coworkers, your boss, whoever. Did they create you? Did they literally create who you are now? Are they? No. You came right as a separate soul. So why did you give these people power over your life and make you feel one way or another? Who are they? They didn't build you. If they didn't build you, they can't break you. They will not be able to destroy you. No situation can destroy you unless you allow it to. Don't come to me and say, " Oh, because of this heartache." "Oh, because my parents did that to me, whatever." Yes, it's sad what you went through. It's sad what happened. But in the end, if you don't fix
your life right now, if you don't stand up and do something with your life, nothing will happen. You can blame these circumstances all you want. You can say that life is against you and that you don't have the same chances, blah, but nothing will change in your life. You will sit in your comfort zone because somewhere in your subconscious you are comfortable playing the role of the victim. You are comfortable blaming all external circumstances because you don't really want to change. Someone who is in survival mode and has no choice doesn't even think about these excuses. He just goes after what he wants. So, one day you'll have to stand up and think to yourself: do I want to live like this? Do I want to continue living like this? Should I
take responsibility for my life into my own hands? And you understand, it's never too late to take responsibility for your life. You can stay in a terrible situation for 10 years, 15 years, 20 years. It doesn't matter. One day, when you decide that this is enough, you will not accept more than this, that is when your life will change. When will you decide? So you better stand up and don't let these people who want to see you down, who want to see you hurt, give them the satisfaction. You can't break someone who came from nothing. These people are strong. If you're a child who was abused and survived, you're damn strong, and you better look in the mirror and tell yourself that. Don't look down on yourself. Don't say, "Oh, because it happened to
me." You are still standing, and the fact that you are still standing means that you are strong. This means you still have something to give. You have a purpose on this earth. We all have weeks when everything seems overwhelming. I've had moments where I look back and realize that I was n't just having a bad week, but was actually working on a blank slate. This happens to me when I keep saying " yes" even when I don't have enough bandwidth. In the end, I push my own needs aside instead of actually checking in with myself. That's when I realize I need to slow down and pay attention to what's really going on.
Therapy has helped me better recognize these patterns before I reach a breaking point. It gave me the opportunity to challenge myself, deal with daily stress, and develop healthier coping skills BetterHelp is a paid partner for today's video , as their mission is to make starting therapy that much easier. With BetterHelp's insurance options, therapy can be more affordable than you think, with co-pays starting at $15. With BetterHelp, a therapist will listen, ask questions, and help you see things from a new perspective. BetterHelp makes therapy available anywhere, online or through an app. For BetterHelp members in the US, therapy can cost less thanks to insurance options available through select health insurance plans. Many
BetterHelp members pay $15 or less. Some even pay $0. If you don't have insurance or live outside the US, you can still get a 10% discount on your first month. Click the link in the description below or visit betterhelp.com/wizardlist to get started. One more thing - Don't focus on these external sources. Listen, I need to have this. Oh, I need to focus on these celebrities. This is all nonsense. It won't improve anything in your life. Nothing. You just consume and consume, but you don't create anything. Your soul does not feel satisfaction because you are not creating anything. You just watch other people create things for themselves, and they sell you things. You buy it. You are just a
consumer. It's like it's eating you up and you can't see it. You're flipping through a doom scroll. You're rotting in bed. You do nothing, and then years go by and you think, "What have I done with my life?" Take your life into your own hands. Enough of the distraction. Being selfish is normal. It's okay to focus on yourself. You don't need to be there for everyone all the time, because after all, when you're in a difficult situation, who's there for you? Who is nearby? You literally shut out all the outside noise and focus like a horse, guys. Like these things they have, just focus on your goal and you will achieve it. It's simple.
You will get there. When you have a goal, and you focus on it, and nothing distracts you. And that's another thing. You create a plan for what you want now and execute it. It's that simple, guys. You want whatever you want, I don't care what you want. I don't care what it is, as long as it's legal and makes you happy. Do it. Create a plan for how you can achieve this. Now you can use the internet, anything, any source to find out how to do it. It's that simple, guys. You create a plan, execute it, and consistently fulfill your responsibilities. You keep showing up. Yes, people will harass you.
Yes, people will laugh at you. They will say you are perverted, you are stupid, you are this, you are that, and you will still have to show up. Because as long as you keep showing up, you can achieve success for yourself. Do you want to be ashamed and embarrassed, or do you want to create a legacy? One more thing: expect praise. You guys are too modest. I'm telling you, mothers, listen to me. You guys literally made society [__] on your heads because you never expected praise. You go through childbirth, you almost die there, and you do n't expect anyone to say, "Wow, that's great." You don't even expect a gift, nothing. Meanwhile, if men gave birth, we would have bow at their feet, acting like god damn gods.
Expect praise. We literally give away our power because we don't realize what we are putting into this world. Every person who walks this earth is descended from a woman. And because women haven't realized their power, we've found ourselves in a situation where everyone is [__] on us, where women are being killed, raped, and abused by the same people we put on earth. One more thing, praise yourself. Look in that mirror and say, " Thank you." Thank you for bringing me here. Thank you for still being on this earth. Thank you for surviving another day. Life is hard. We did not come to this earth to be promised a beautiful life. No. I believe this planet is a prison planet. I sincerely believe that we are all in prison.
We will never have complete freedom. But any freedom that you can create for yourself is what you should focus on, any kind of freedom. When you can look in the mirror and say, " I love you." Thank you for being here. "Thank you for giving me another chance." "That's when you win." Daily. Tell yourself how amazing you are. Remind yourself every day how far you have come. Look back 3 years ago. Look where you are now. You probably achieved some of the goals you wanted to achieve back then. One more thing: don't surround yourself with losers. If you surround yourself with losers, you will be the second loser.
I swear to God. If you see that your partner is a loser, whom you are constantly trying to motivate to do better, but he is just a hater, a victim, leave him. Leave it where it is. They don't want to grow, and you can't make these people grow. They are comfortable being the victim. This is what they want. They don't want their lives to change. This is a comfort to them. If you want to achieve anything in life, if you don't leave people like that behind, you'll be stuck with them. And you see, you have people who want to change and want to rise. You can
take them with you. But most people don't want." change. This is unpleasant. Their body just wants the same thing every day over and over again. And when changes occur, they cannot cope with them. So you need to look at yourself and think, " Okay, am I surrounded by people who support me? Who want the best for me? What makes me feel better when I leave the situation? Am I surrounded by people who constantly drain me? Which ones make feel like [__] every day? Which ones make me doubt my own self-worth? "If you are surrounded by people who make you doubt your own self-worth, you need to cut off communication with them. Don't think that these people are smarter than you. That these people are better than you.
This is not true. They are not afraid. They go after what they want. People, especially on social media who have already achieved success, simply do their job and are not shy. You are all full of fear, shame, of what people will think. That's why your whole life you will be controlled, and you will never create anything for yourself. Get up. Get rid of this mindset. Another thing is that failure does not exist. Nothing is a failure. Everything is a lesson. Either you learn or you win. This is the only option. I don't think anything bad in my life was bad. I don't think anything. I wouldn't change anything I did. Everything I've done has led me to the
person I am today, and today I can even look back and think, " Wow, I'm such a strong woman." "Everything I've been through has just made me realize how strong I am, and I'm grateful I saw that because I needed to see my strength. Today I am a much better version of myself than I was 2 years ago. So I'm grateful for what I've been through. Look at everything you've been through, learn from it, and move on. Don't sit there and think, " Oh, this happened to me, and now everything is bad." " No, no, no, no." What did you learn? What did this teach you? Why did this happen in your life? What do you need to learn more about? What do you need to do more of? And that's how you develop. Nothing in life that happens to you is against
you. Start thinking that life is working for me. Even if I do n't like it, it works for me because in some way I get a blessing from it. Start believing it. This should be your mantra in your head. Life is meant to bless me. God bless me. Start thinking like this every day. Miracles are coming. I will survive this. Whenever you've had a situation where you thought, "I can't get through this, this is it." "Didn't you survive?" Didn't you get out of this? Right. Okay, it's the same situation again. Life is not supposed to be easy. This planet is here to teach you something.
Your soul will only develop as you learn. Be grateful for your lessons, and then move on to the next lesson. Another thing-act as if your life is a video game. Literally imagine yourself as a character. Act like you're in a movie, and then you're a movie star. How would you like to behave if you were looking at yourself from a TV screen? Would you want to look at someone who constantly cries for their dusty boyfriend? No. You want the character to go, take action, do something, right? You want to make it exciting. Would you want to look at someone who is constantly reviewing, flipping through stories of doom? No, you would turn off the channel like
he had a boring life, right? So think to yourself, who would I want to watch? What character? And imagine your life as a video game. How would a character in a video game deal with this situation? How would he. Move? Think like this. Pretend like there are cameras on you, like you're a reality show star. Literally, you are the main character. This is your life. It's as if the bottom is the best place to be, because from the very bottom you can create anything. Everything falls apart anyway, so you can start from scratch. Seeing bad things happening and saying, okay, one more thing I can do. Another thing, how can I show myself how strong I am, how powerful I am, and how I will rise again. And that's the
whole point. You will rise. No matter what, what anyone says, no matter who is against you, no one can stop your blessings. If something is written for you, you will receive it. There's nothing they can do to stop it. If it's meant for you, and if your soul feels like something is meant for you, I swear to God, guys, from a young age I just knew I was destined to be great. I knew it. It was in me. And many people who have achieved this will say the same thing. They knew they were destined to be great. You feel it. If you have this feeling, if you are even slightly inspired by me, know that the same essence that I have is within you, because otherwise you would not be able to recognize it in me.
You will win. You have the power, you have the wisdom, you have everything you need. You will succeed. Just keep going. Don't lose hope. You just need to have unwavering faith that everything in life will work out for you. She must be steadfast. This should be your foundation. Yes, you can complain. Yes, you may be a little sad, but then you will return to your basics. Everything will work out for me. I will win. Life was designed for me to succeed. This is your foundation. No matter how far you fall and how bad you feel, you get back to your basics.
Remember this. And the reason I will always show how I fail, suffer, or what I go through is so that you guys can see how I will rise again every time. Because I will inspire everyone to rise with me. And I want to inspire, especially women, to persevere. You guys are too quiet. You guys. You have humbled yourself so much that no one recognizes your worth anymore. Women are not the greatest prize on earth. Now the main prize is men. It's a shame what's happening on social media. Every two weeks, another woman is attacked. It's a shame, and other women do all this. Don't humiliate yourself like that.
Get up. Be selfish. Be a worse woman. Be a [__]. I don't care. But don't be a woman who is neglected, disregarded, and treated like a nobody, because we have enough of those. This is exactly how our ancestors and our mothers were treated. Where are they? They are in the grave, how are they remembered? As for the technicians, because they lived as one. They were just a mother. They were good cooks. They were good cleaners. They were maids. This is how they are remembered. When these were wise women, when these were women, their voices needed to be heard. But they fell silent. They were afraid. So we have a duty to our ancestors to rise up. Don't let us be ruled by either women
or men. Women shouldn't tell.us what to do with our bodies, and neither should men. Patriarchy, a society, thrives on the control and surveillance of women's bodies. Don't let them do that. Do what you want. You have choices in your life. Have as much freedom, have as little shame as all these men have. That's why all these women will rise again, and we are already rising. Keep climbing. Anyway, guys, thank you very much for watching this video. I hope this helped some of you guys and yes. See you in the next video. I love you guys.
See you later.
