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I'm about to take the boys on their morning walk. Literally summer time now. I get a lot of sunspots and I'm really trying to avoid getting sunspots. I had my mom send me sun patches. I've never used this before. Ooh, it's very cooling. So much around this area. I've seen like clear ones which are very intriguing. So when I go to Korean, I might buy those. Very nice. I look ridiculous, but I'm only just going for a walk. You bet. I'm going to take these with me on my bachelorette trip because I'm not trying to get any sun damage.
I'm going to wear like big glasses. Ready to go. And then I have this It is a beautiful day in New York City. We are by Columbus Circle. I am on my way to the Mandarin Oriental for afternoon tea. Sounds so bougie. Yuian got invited and she invited me to join it with her. So very lucky. This is insane view. Yeah. Even after living here for so many years, it's like I still think it's so nice. Imagine you lived at one of these buildings up here. Oh my god, this building's so tall. Stopping by the Lauria store to see photos of myself. That's funny. This is cool.
A little matcha scented candle to create a little ambiance for our chitchat. Cheers. While I do my nails, a year prior to getting engaged, I have just been getting monthly gel nails in preparation for a little surprise. And I didn't take a single break. It really did a number on the quality of my nails. I'm taking a little break. And honestly, I kind of like just the look of bare nails right now. I am putting on like a very light clear coat on my nails just to make them look a little shiny and put together. So, I'm going to chat with you guys while I do my nails. One thing that I get asked a lot is adult friendships and particularly women friendships are some of the hardest things to navigate,
but also the best thing ever. I used to feel disappointed in certain friends who I thought didn't show up for me the way I showed up for them. And I realized I was expecting every friendship to show up in the same exact way. The most important lesson that I learned in therapy, not every friend is meant to fill every bucket in your life. You have your fun friends who might show up for parties and then you have your ride or dies. You would vent to them and maybe you have work friends who you talk about all things work. I realized I can't expect my fun party friend to show up the same way as my ride or die friend.
There are just like different types of friends which was something that I had to learn and none of that makes the friendship less valuable. And understanding that has given me so much mental peace and a lot better relationships. So these are the valuable things that I learned in therapy. And as always, if you are interested in starting therapy, BetterHelp, the sponsor of this video, makes it really easy. You get matched with a therapist, but you can switch at any time at no extra cost if they're not the right fit. You can click the link in the description or go to betterhelp.com/michel choy to get 10% off your first month of therapy. And the good thing about clear nails is that once they start chipping
away, it's not like so obvious. That drives me nuts. So, love that. We are in the Hamptons for the weekend. We're on like a couple's trip with Yuen and Nicole. James, I'm excited later for dinner because we're going to be making cream barbecue. Oh my god, I'm so tired. Oh, the house is nice um in the daytime. I like these like big windows. There is one, right? Where are we? Sag Harbor. We just drove down to the village. Going to grab something to eat. The boys are golfing, so we're just going to grab something to eat and then head home.
Kill it. Daddy So, we're going to darken up the color a little bit cuz it's gotten very light. It has been raining all weekend long, which I am not mad about. But I have the house to myself, so I am going to make myself something to eat. And I am just going to be a couch potato for the rest of the day. I'm going to make some radish kimchi real quick. going to salt it and put sugar, but I'm not going to put sugar. Instead, I'm going to put corn syrup. While we wait for the radish, I'm going to mince up some garlic. And then before you know it, all this water came out of the radish. So, I'm going to drain it. So, this is our radish. Now, I squeeze out all the water. Now I'm going to put some kucharo.
I think this is like shrimp paste. Add a little bit. I feel like it really does make kimchi taste better. Then I add my garlic. And then I'm going to add all my green onions. Delicious. And the beauty of this kimchi is that you can eat it right away. M. That's perfection. Now I'm going to build. Did I even tell you guys what I'm making? I'm just making peeing pup. I tell you guys this all the time, but eating peanut pup in a silver bowl makes pean taste so much better. I don't know what it is. I don't make the rules. My chhatur, my beef brisket, fresh kimchi, and then an egg. A little bit of kchang.
Drizzle some sesame oil on top. And this is my little snack. It is midday. It's like 300 p.m. Going to become a couch potato for the rest of the day. Does anyone else always fall asleep when they're watching a show with their significant other? I don't know what it is, but whenever I am watching a show or like a movie with Blan, I fall asleep like 10 minutes into the movie or show. And then now you just mix it all up. All right, taste test. You already have it. You done it. I'm sure you We have to do this more often. We said that last time.
